5 Differences Between Men And Women in Sexual Desire

After men and women enter into an intimate relationship, many people will feel worried, frustrated, or unsatisfied in terms of sexuality, and often because it is difficult to speak and cannot be resolved, conflicts usually are caused. In fact, sexual inconsistency between partners often occurs and is more caused by the widespread sexual differences between men and women.

 In sexual desire, men and women have at least the following 5 differences.

1. Men think about sex more often. A survey by Florida State University found that men have more frequent sexual arousal and more frequent and varied sexual fantasies. Most men under the age of 60 say they think about sex-related behaviors at least once a day; in contrast, only about a quarter of women think about it regularly.

This difference is mainly related to the physiological structure. The sex-related areas of the male brain are twice as large as those of females, so they are particularly sensitive to "sex" matters. And men's testosterone levels are much higher than women's, making them generally more aroused than women.

Therefore, in marriage and love, the woman will find that the male partner seems to want sex in the early stage of the relationship; the man will find that the woman seems to avoid sex in the early stage of the relationship, rarely mentioning sexual topics actively, and rarely expressing sexual desire.

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2. Men care more about quantity. An American sociologist randomly selected 3,500 men and women to investigate the number of sexual partners. It was found that American men have an average of six sexual partners in their lifetime, while women have an average of only two. Sociologists surveyed a primitive tribe in the 1950s and found similar results that men were still more interested in polysexual partners than women. Men not only want more sexual partners, but even with the same partner, men also pursue more sex lives. "One Night Njiro" is always a topic for men to advertise and show their sexual ability to each other.

Men wanting more sex has to do with their reproductive strategies. For men, the more and more frequent the delivery of sperm, the easier it is to obtain offspring, so their sexual arousal is also very easy, directly stimulate the reproductive organs, and can basically ensure orgasm and ejaculation. For women, the cost of production and rearing is very high. The best reproduction strategy is to find a stable and reliable partner to work with, so they will observe how the other party takes care of themselves and how to express their attention and care. It takes time to show this part of the warmth, so women's sexual arousal is very complex, it needs to be emotionally in place, and the partner must show patience, carefulness, and tacit understanding so that it is easy to achieve orgasm.

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This difference is usually manifested in intimate relationships: men are more eager to have sex, require less foreplay, and pursue more often. Women, on the other hand, tend to be slower in their sexual life, and they want a lot of foreplay and after-play blessings. Compared with more times, they pay more attention to whether the process is tacit and beautiful.

3. Men are more aware of their sexual arousal. A study of more than 2,500 women and 1,900 men found that sexual arousal is simple in men, who know exactly if they are sexually excited and why, but women are far more complex. They often have conflicting physical and mental situations: they report no excitement, even when physical signs indicate that they are excited. Such contradictions are rare among men.

This may be influenced by sexual culture, women are more inclined to deny their sexual desire and arousal, and it may also be related to the recognition of sexual excitement in men and women. Men can clearly observe or feel the changes in their sexual organs, while women have difficulty determining whether they have "sexual interest" unless they reach out and touch their vaginas. This difference causes women to appear to be more "dishonest" than men, such as saying no to the body but responding.

4. Men and women have different ways to satisfy. Surveys show that for every 100 sex acts in heterosexual couples, men will orgasm 95 times, compared with 65 times for women. Many women do not achieve orgasm every time, and some people even have no orgasm in their entire lives, resulting in different understandings of sexual satisfaction between men and women.

For men, ejaculation is usually the first purpose, and a series of foreplay and tenderness are all for sexual relations; while women pay more attention to the feelings in the process, various intimacy behaviors can make women sexually satisfied, not Be sure to take a complete personality life process.

5. Women's sex is more susceptible to emotional influence. Compared with men, women are more likely to be affected by emotions and lose interest in sex, have difficulty getting into the state, have difficulty enjoying, and even refuse to have sex. Men are much less affected by emotions. Once sexual desire is triggered, they can quickly resolve and eliminate obstacles, and release pressure with orgasm.

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This difference stems from the difference in how men and women process emotions, with women having more persistent memories of and being affected by negative emotions than men, while men's negative memories are less active. So we will find that after a quarrel, men have long let go of wanting to have sex, while women are still sulking over old accounts.

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