Why Your Wife Doesn't Want To Have Sex?
Jun 10, 2022
In the real world, men are often reluctant to express their emotions, especially insecurity and fear, weakness and incompetence, but there is nowhere to hide the counterattack of emotions to the body. Sex may strike a man's disguise with the appearance of premature ejaculation.
Kaicheng, one of our company's patients before, is the business executive of an electronics company. He has been married for more than six years and has two children. He has had very high boudoir pleasures between husband and wife. He even used vibrating eggs and massage sticks to increase the fun. I have no interest in sex at all, and every time I have sex, I want to get done and go to bed as soon as possible. In this way, Kai became a premature ejaculation man.
Kaicheng went to the hospital for an examination, and the doctor suggested taking anti-anxiety drugs to relieve the symptoms, but he couldn't help panicking: "I'm only thirty-nine years old, do I have to take medicine for the rest of my life to have sex and maintain a man's self-confidence? "This is not the life he wants, but he doesn't know how his sex life has become a pool of stagnant?
Definition and treatment of premature ejaculation
Experts define premature ejaculation, some scholars define it by the time from the penis entering the vagina to ejaculation, and some scholars define it by the number of twitches after the penis enters the vagina. Whether it is one minute, three minutes, or ten or fifteen, it is still necessary to return to the essence of sexual behavior between the sexes - pleasure - as the main focus, so whether the process is pleasant is an important part of sexual life.
The ejaculation time and sexual experience, the degree of sexual excitement and the situation at that time have a considerable relationship with the satisfaction of both parties. Men have more or less experienced premature ejaculation, and it is only necessary to deal with premature ejaculation in most of the sexual behaviors that affect the sexual relationship.
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After taking cistanche and the third consultation, Kaicheng was finally willing to come with his wife.
"For women, does sex have a great need in marriage? Do you see a psychiatrist if you don't get sexual satisfaction?" What exactly is a woman's sex? How does sex affect families and marriages? In addition to Kaicheng's complete condition, his wife has been secretly receiving psychological counseling for two years, but Kaicheng has only recently found out.
"Women have sexual needs, whether they are married or not, and of course, they want to feel loved, what do you think of your sex life?"
"I don't want to be fooled anymore. I've been a tool for his masturbation for three years. What do I need? It's not that I don't want to help him, I'm about to collapse. Doctor, see if you can help us find a solution. How?" Kaicheng's wife sobbed.
I felt that both Kai Cheng and his wife wanted to change, to find a way out of the situation that was about to suffocate.
"She complained that my physical needs outweighed my love, and I had sex with me so that I wouldn't have sex outside. But my wife only allowed sex once a week, and I felt like I was in a dominant position, even talking at home. It's a very uncomfortable feeling for a man." Kaicheng couldn't hide his unappreciated anger. "When did your sex life start to change?" I continued.
"Wife after giving birth! Her vagina has become very dry, we have less foreplay, the frequency of sex has dropped sharply from three or four times a week to once, I don't know if my wife wants it or not, so I just wanted to ejaculate earlier, but the problem of premature ejaculation became more and more serious, does my wife dislike me for premature ejaculation?" He asked me in frustration, directly revealing the anxiety in his heart, premature ejaculation means a woman who cannot conquer her.
In the erotic world, a man wants to feel love or express love through sex. If he feels a woman's desire, affirmation, support and encouragement, it will bring a great sense of self-confidence and security to men; conversely, men will also lack self-confidence and security.
In the treatment room, we observed that Kaicheng's erection was as hard as a banana with a peel, and his physiological response was normal. It should be anxiety that caused premature ejaculation and low self-confidence. He no longer knew whether sex was for ejaculation, orgasm or childbirth, nor did he know how to flirt and caress. And the wife feels that she is not loved, which shows the lack of sexual communication between husband and wife.
Kaicheng quickly learned basic erection hardness massage, desensitization techniques and ejaculation control training methods. I specially instructed him to practice these not to conquer, but to prepare for your wonderful sex life. In addition to practicing more at home, the key is to spend more time to understand why my wife doesn't like sex, what it feels like to have sex, and to explore each other's sensitive zones.
The next time I meet Kai Cheng, he shares with me the content of these time couple communications. He said: "It turns out that there are many things that a woman can't understand after marriage. She not only married me, but also married into a new family. The circle of life has changed from "my family" to "in-law's family", and she has to get her husband's family when dealing with others. People's approval, the pressure to readjust to a new life is very high, coupled with the problems of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, differences in money management concepts, etc., the friction is overwhelming, and she is exhausted.
The originally pleasant sex life has become just for the sake of inheriting the family. Another thing that my wife never told me is that due to the cut of the perineum during natural childbirth, the wound is dull and painful, so she is afraid of the penis entering, so she does not like sex more and more. .
Women's Libido needs to be developed, and the decision of orgasm is not entirely up to men
After a few weeks, I deliberately asked the two sides to communicate frequently and think rationally and positively about the source of the matter. Kaicheng gradually understood the reason for his wife's lack of sexual interest, and he began to feel the same from his wife's standpoint. After the meeting, I suggested that his wife should conduct a vaginal examination according to her doubts and hidden worries, find out the cause of the pain, and confirm whether it was really the uncomfortable feeling caused by the suture that year.
"So what happened during sex recently?" I think Kai Sung's change in attitude would be a good start. Now that the psychological factors of vaginal dryness have been initially ruled out, it should help to improve the intimate relationship between the two parties.
"I caressed my wife's clitoris, and I felt that the vagina became moist and firm after ejaculation. My wife said she had reached orgasm, and she no longer felt pain." It turned out that the doctor said his wife was fine, and there was no abnormality in the wound.
"After we had sex, we shared our feelings with each other, and my wife told me that she never liked oral sex, hand sex, only direct penis penetration, and my previous premature ejaculation made her lose her previous desire for sex. Also, she hoped I don't stop and move when I'm pumping, it will interrupt her orgasm. But what makes me happiest is that after these hours of practice, my little eldest has improved a lot, and the sex satisfaction is much better than before."
"I used to take a shower when I was done, but now I don't have to rush, I can lie on the bed and talk about how I feel, I don't have to guess each other's thoughts anymore, communicate more, and reach a consensus more often. Intimacy Naturally I became more at ease." Kai Cheng explained the state of their aftermath.
Women's sexual needs can be developed, and they can use masturbation, sex toys, etc. to find the possibility of improving their physical sensations and enjoy spontaneous sexual pleasure. It is even more important to explore your own body and how to orgasm, and if you incorporate this kind of orgasmic joy into the process of two people making love, you can experience double orgasm.
The decision to orgasm is not entirely dependent on the man, let alone the piston movement. If women lack sexual exploration and sexual assertion, they will only push men farther, and they will be injured in this battle without knowing it.
After six weeks, Kaicheng controlled his ejaculation through uninterrupted self-practice. He made rapid progress and even felt that his penis became larger and thicker. The love and sex of the process are all taken into account.
When his wife felt that her husband was seeking love not just to vent her physical needs for ejaculation, but to develop more intimate feelings, she was more willing to step up her steps to open up and accept herself, and then develop her own sexual needs and do more Flirting and caressing; in terms of sexual attitude, it has changed from the drudgery of cooperating to have sex to one that can hint or express the need to have sex, and take the initiative to make a sexual offer of "let's try it tonight".
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